So, how about some Braai Day thoughts to go with those chops….

The struggle of man against power is the struggle of memory against forgetting.” – Milan Kundera

When I was a kid I grew up knowing today’s now holiday as “Shaka Day”.

It was awesome, having a whole day named after me. Of course as time passed it got a little less awesome – for one thing the day was renamed to an infinitely less sexy name – Heritage Day. And the other, well, It’s not so cool celebrating the day our greatest nation- builder was killed.

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Isn’t it telling how many of our public days mark the death of our people?

Lately I celebrate the day of another nation-builder – Madiba – with a lot more verve. I suppose that’s because in the past five years my fellow Cheesekids and I have invested a lot into making the day what it’s now professed to be about – service.

But it wasn’t always that way, remember when it was a 46664 party. Sure it was to raise funds for a good cause – HIV/AIDS and what not – by let’s be real, it was also a moerse party with the world’s finest for those of us who could afford or could hustle the tickets.

Now, it’s a day where everyone gets stuck in – proudly doing something by themselves. I remember how in the first year of Mandela Day almost everyone I knew was stuck wondering “what can I do?”. Hence Cheesekids’ own Mandela Day excesses. But this year, almost everyone was going on about their “own project”.

It’s uncanny how the identity of a day can shift so dramatically, in such a short space of time, and yet the change seems so subtle – it’s still about Mandela after all isn’t it?

In the same time I’ve witnessed a similar shift in today’s identify. The campaign to rebrand Heritage Day “Braai Day” has been some years in the offing and is clearly bearing fruit. Nearly every retailer or media outlet refers to Braai Day in some shape or form. It’s as given as birthday cake, christmas lunch or drinking on a public holiday.

But there’s trouble in Braai paradise. Some of us, particularly clever blacks, are revolting against the name. Let just say we find this new identity revolting.

I do, not just because it moves us further and further away from Shaka Day, but precisely because it’s not the day’s name. To me there are few things worse than someone insinuating a new name onto someone, or something that belongs to everyone.

The reason for calling today Heritage Day was because when the IFP pushed for Shaka Day to be included in the roster of national holidays, SA’s first corp of democratically elected parliamentarians realised that this yearning of wanting to honour a Zulu founding father and hero was universal – the Sothos, Vendas, the Khoi, the Afrikaans, Somali or Chinese immigrants, in-fact any one living in South Africa would similarly wish to remember and pay homage to their heroes, their stories, their cultures. Hence Heritage Day. A day for us all.

So the Braai Day movement feels to me like someone calling me “Charlie” simply because they like my hats. Or worse “Beefy” because I happen to love Beef.

At best, it’s a naive attempt to unite us all. Assuming that we all like meat, or can afford it, and wish to call it a braai. But let’s follow this logic, why not call it Xhela day, as all the meat has to be slaughtered, and that itself is more in keeping with many African cultures. In fact even our Muslim and Jewish citizens culinary preference places emphasis on the how the meat they eat is felled.

I think it’s simply that those of us who typically decide the national discourse and dream up campaigns be they to save the world, Rhinos or sell iphones rarely have insight into any lifestyle bar their own. And don’t seem to care to develop this.

So it could be that Braai Day is just evidence of that condescending Anglo-Saxon imperialist attitude that usurps and coverts all it comes across to suit it’s own superiority tinged interests. Isn’t it?

Or perhaps Braai Day is no more than a commercial ploy to get us buying and eating more meat – the license for a consumerist orgy that will leave everyone, especially supermarket owners, glowing. Maybe. But we don’t call Christmas “Present Day”, just as much as the American, those masters of commercialism, don’t call Thanksgiving “Turkey Day”.

Look, we could also take the view that reforming Heritage Day Braai Day is indicative of a bland sense of heritage in the originators. Perhaps we should rather feel for them, and sympathize with them for having such a pitifully shallow heritage so as to want to reduce everyone else’s to a braai.

Or we could adopt my view that the clever blacks are not doing their part to shape the identity of a free South Africa.

For eons, the identity of all South Africans was dictated by a small elite. One that would decide that if someone’s name was too difficult to pronounce it would simply change to “Petrus” in his passbook.

And yet when black people finally find their political freedom and the ability to dream up ways of affirming and expressing themselves, they sit by and let a small marketing elite determine how their national days should be commemorated.

How many of us with means, or even in public office have sought to define how South Africans behave on this day? Have we thought of the big idea that the day will revolve around just as Mandela Day has, or indeed even this Braai Day?

There is a myriad of ways to potentially mark such a day – how about a tour of heritage sites from  the caves of humanity’s dawn to Lilliesleaf; or each of us mapping a route of our parents’ parents and their parents; or learning the language or another national group – imagine if we started the day with mass classes across the country; or committing to joining the next Ramadaan fast or Diwali festival or come eat ulusu at an unveiling ceremony;  or cooking nothing but your home food to go with your braai, imagine if you were starring in an episode of Come Dine with Me and the theme was cultural dishes – how would you fare?

Hey, how about a massive bash and your entrance fee is the stamp you got at any museum you visited that day?

What of just deepening our understanding of the past that shaped us, from whence our heritages come, after all “past is prologue”?

In closing let me tell you of a recent trip I took to a world heritage site that more tourists go to than South Africans – Robben Island. On the tour there, the bus at some stage stops outside a strange prison – it is a fenced off house. This was the prison built to hold one man in isolation for nearly a decade. His name was Robert Sobukwe.

When the tour guide asked if anyone on the bus had ever heard of him, only my hand went up. The tour guide then explained that Sobukwe’s isolation, and the law that precipitated it – the Robert Sobukwe Clause – were intended to keep him and his ideas of pan-Africanism away from everyone. Better that he die forgotten and that his name slips from the annals of history. When I looked around and saw that noone else knew his story I knew then that the Apartheid regime’s objectives had been achieved. They had killed Sobukwe’s memory.

As I look around today, and see so few people talking, thinking or even discussing the other great son of the soil, who inspired this day, emperor Shaka I realise that the same is happening with him – and all the other great Afrikan men and women in whom we can find reason to be proud.

“They” are killing the memory of “our” people. Except this time, batho baka, “they” is us.

Let’s catch a wake up my brothers and sisters. Let’s have a chop. And catch a wake up.

10 thoughts on “So, how about some Braai Day thoughts to go with those chops….

  1. Well-written..we’re guilty as charged..I think that we are slowly heading to living a watered down democracy notwithstanding there are pieces of history missing from the democracy-puzzle we are trying to build..once the missing pieces are recovered, we shall find, shockingly, our lives are too much intertwined to be lived apart..

  2. Thank U Bab’Sisulu mina NgiliNdebele and today its a proud Day 2 Go back and remember what happened 2 Mzilikazi and Nzunza,Also it breaks my heart that our Typical Black society are following thi Braai day thing I personally HATE the Initiative…MAYIBUYE IAFRIKA sigidinge oKhokho bethu & wear our Cultural wear with Pride
    Akwande NAMASILELA DLAMBILI

    Phethile

  3. Well said malume Shaka…great piece, i love it. Particurlaly the ideas that you through in randomly, they need to be implemented. Most of us South Africans have tendencies of complaining without taking any action, and that’s exactly why people ‘they’will just do things as they wish with what belongs to us- they will tell us our own stories. This is an alarming piece…

  4. the agony in our lives. I tuned into a very popular radio station of our time yesterday morning and a government official, minister of what what agreed that braais are an acceptable form of ‘celebrating’ this day (Heritage) for they ‘unite’ us. I’ve never had my heart broken that way by somebody I’ve never even met in the entirety of my life.

    That which is meant to be our pride, our source of strength and courage as South Africans diminishes day by day at our expense in the name of freedom and democracy.

  5. This article deserves to be published in all major publications that reach our masses,including daily sun lol..I wrote on my twitter TL yesterday morning that there is more to our heritage than a simple braai,thhat its important to know who we are were we come from.Your article emphasises this point very well.We can’t allow our history and rich heritage to be wiped away like the way Sobukwe was wiped from the books of history.We need to stand up and claim our rightfull place in history.Our government must work hard in preserving our history,make it more interesting for the youth to be involved in activities which seek to teach history.Without history,we will be like a car with no engine…..Thanks Mr Sisulu…

  6. My man you need a sit somewhere up there to educate us the nation thanks we need more people like you to take us forward the stragle shall continue ” AMANDLA” . We need education about ourselfs now more than ever, knowing our roots will heal this nation and unit us even more…Again thank you its honour ” Wena We Ndlovu”

  7. Excellent piece, Shaka. It utterly galls me that a few so-called ‘smart marketers’ cooked up an idea that effectively has trivialized the rich heritage of this beautiful land. In so doing, they’ve deepened the disconnect between peoples and cultural diversity.

    We have less than a year to build a widespread lobby campaign that firmly puts “National Braai Day” on the charcoals of anti-social-cohesion! I hope young lions such as you will lead this much-needed charge!

  8. I’m not against fires, if those fires are for ‘fireside’ history-telling of TrueStories that actually link us. Start by appointing Official StoryTellers to each School Area, who travel School to School holding gatherings. Props are not important if you have the right person telling Truth (Truth is really so seductive, everyone recognises it + hangs on to every word!) I KNOW inside myself that kids would look forward to these sessions – hell, I would love to attend, myself! As for this horrid ‘Braai’ thing – that’s only OK as secondary to what I visualise for Shaka Day – Full scale (Use the Stadiums, HOORAY!) Shows of just what happened with the brave, mighty Impi, possibly – People would pay good money to be part of that. Braais could be part of it *smile* It would UNITE us! But, really, true history told with flair + truth beginning as early as possible in Schools is key! You are just the man to Head this Project – Go to it! Strength to you, and GRATITUDE.

  9. Reblogged this on gumbimpume and commented:
    “They” are killing the memory of “our” people. Except this time, batho baka, “they” is us.
    we should seek to encourage black love and eliminate white hate…

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